“And there will be signs in sun and moon and stars, and on the earth distress of nations in perplexity because of the roaring of the sea and the waves, people fainting with fear and with foreboding of what is coming on the world. For the powers of the heavens will be shaken. And then they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. Now when these things begin to take place, straighten up and raise your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.” (Luke 21:25-28 ESV) When Jesus comes, what will I be doing? What will I be saying? I think we should ask ourselves this question at each breath because God’s Word says we can breathe out life or death or both. I don’t want words of death coming out of my mouth at all.  We can change that RIGHT NOW, RIGHT HERE! We can pray to the Lord and ask for His help in purifying our hearts. David prayed, “How can I know all the sins lurking in my heart? Cleanse me from these hidden faults. Keep your servant from deliberate sins! Don’t let them control me.” (Psalm 19:12-13 NLT) If David prayed this, then how much more should we?  Did you notice in Luke’s scripture that Jesus gives us a little bit of time by saying, “Now when these things begin to take place, straighten up…” That’s great Grace! That’s God’s covenant with His people! So… What are you doing right now?

Rapha Christian Counseling Center  Advancing Faith-Based Care and Counselor Certification Rapha Christian Counseling Center (Rapha CCC) stands as a beacon of hope, healing, and professional development in the field of faith-based mental health services. Certified by the National Christian Counseling Association (NCCA), Rapha CCC integrates Christian principles with evidence-based counseling to support the spiritual, emotional, and mental well-being of individuals, families, and communities. Dr. Janet has been affiliated with the NCCA since 2013.   She is a Licensed Clinical Pastoral Counselor—Advanced Certified. Celebrating a Decade of Service This year marks Rapha CCC’s 10th anniversary of dedicated service to the community. In celebration of this milestone, Rapha CCC is hosting an open house to welcome clients, community supporters, and partners. This special event offers an opportunity for guests to learn more about the center’s mission, explore its programs, and join in commemorating a decade of transformative impact. All are invited to connect with staff and students, ask questions, and celebrate the center’s ongoing commitment to healing and hope. Recent Achievements and Community Impact Rapha CCC is proud to announce it was recently awarded a Walmart Spark Good Grant, a recognition that underscores the center’s ongoing commitment to accessible, compassionate care for those in need. This grant will further empower Rapha CCC to expand its outreach and enhance its support services for vulnerable populations. Rapha Christian Counseling Center was recognized on Alignable by over 10 million businesses across the US & Canada. They were voted:  # 1 Local Business in Fresno CA. # 1 in the State of CA # 5 in the Top 50 Women Owned Businesses across the US #16 in the Top 50 Business across the US & CAD Commitment to Counselor Education and Certification As an authorized Certified Academic Institute (CAI) through the NCCA, Rapha CCC is dedicated to cultivating the next generation of Christian counselors. Currently, six students are actively enrolled in programs working toward licensing certification and academic degrees. These students benefit from a rigorous curriculum that blends professional counseling techniques with Christian faith, equipping them to serve diverse communities with empathy and expertise. Expanding Services for Homeless and Veterans Recognizing the urgent need for mental health support among homeless individuals and veterans, Rapha CCC has applied for a $250,000 grant to launch targeted programs in partnership with local organizations. These initiatives aim to provide counseling, personal development, and essential life skills to help participants achieve stability and self-sufficiency. By addressing the unique challenges faced by these populations, Rapha CCC seeks to break cycles of homelessness and empower individuals to rebuild their lives with dignity and hope. A Tradition of Excellence and Compassion With an impressive client success rate and over a decade of service, Rapha CCC is committed to fostering healing through faith, personalized guidance, and a community-centered approach. The center’s model avoids clinical diagnoses and medication, focusing instead on understanding, prayer, and holistic support-always placing the individual’s spiritual journey at the heart of care. Looking Ahead Rapha Christian Counseling Center remains steadfast in its mission to provide transformative counseling, empower future leaders in Christian mental health, and expand its reach to underserved populations. With the continued support of grants, community partners, and dedicated students, Rapha CCC is poised to make an even greater impact in the years ahead. For more information about Rapha CCC’s programs, services, or educational opportunities, please visit their website raphaccc.org or contact the center directly by email at info@raphaccc.org  phone: 559-478-6077

Click On Book For More Information Calm Moments for Anxious Days: A 90-Day Devotional Journey By: Max Lucado It's not always easy to release worries into God's hands! Weaving together Scripture promises, enlightening illustrations, and thoughtful practices, Lucado's 90-day devotional will help you exchange anxiety for heavenly peace. Each powerful entry includes a brief meditation, biblical promise, and space for recording prayers and concerns. Whatever the challenge, let these encouragements bring you back to truth and hope! 208 pages, hardcover from Nelson.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE By: Dr. Phyllis J. Arno Phlegmatic in Affection We’ve all heard the question: "What is love?" As Christians, we often answer, “God is love,” and point others to 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 , which describes love like this: Love is patient, Love is kind. It does not envy, It does not boast, It is not proud. It is not rude, It is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. So what do we say then? That’s a great question. The answer begins with our relationship with God. When someone accepts Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior, they receive God's unconditional love—because God is love  (1 John 4:16). From that point on, they simply need to tap into God’s love . How do we do that? We let go of our own limited, conditional love and allow God's perfect love to flow through us. When we do, our love changes—it becomes unconditional . Deuteronomy 6:5–9 says: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength… Teach these words to your children… Talk about them at home, on the road, when you lie down, and when you get up… Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” Other helpful verses include: Matthew 22:37-39  – Love God and love your neighbor. John 3:16  – God gave His Son for us out of love. John 13:34  – Jesus commands us to love one another. John 14:23-24  – Those who love Jesus will obey His words. 2 Corinthians 7:1  – Purify yourself out of reverence for God. Philippians 1:9-10  – Grow in love, knowledge, and discernment. 2 Timothy 1:7  – God gives us a spirit of love, not fear. 1 John 4:7-8  – Everyone who loves is born of God. 1 John 4:15-16  – Remain in love and God remains in you. 1 John 4:21  – If we love God, we must also love others. What Is Unconditional Love? The Bible teaches that God loves us unconditionally . People may ask, “What does that really mean?” We can explain that unconditional love: Has no strings attached. Cannot be earned. Is not based on behavior. Wikipedia  defines it as: “Affection without any limitations.” Webster’s Dictionary  says: “Not subject to conditions.” But we only truly understand love when we experience God’s love , because God is love , and His love is perfect and holy . However, God’s love does not ignore sin. Proverbs 6:16-19 lists what God hates: A proud look A lying tongue Hands that shed innocent blood A heart that plots evil Feet quick to do wrong A false witness A person who stirs up conflict PHLEGMATIC IN AFFECTION Let’s look at some common traits of the Phlegmatic temperament  in the area of affection: Traits Behaviors Emotionally Guarded May seem distant or hard to read Dry Sense of Humor Often uses humor to deflect emotions Low Energy Conserves emotional and physical energy Unaffectionate May resist physical or emotional closeness Observer Watches rather than participates Responder Rarely initiates, tries to keep peace Stubborn Resists change, especially when drained Peace at All Costs Avoids conflict even at personal expense Phlegmatics in Affection are task-oriented , not relationship-driven. They may say things like,  “Don’t touch me!”  or “You’re suffocating me!”  This happens when they feel their personal space is being invaded. They often: Respond more than initiate in relationships. Form few deep bonds to conserve energy. Use humor to deflect emotional demands. Avoid expressing emotions directly, making them hard to “read.” This temperament needs to first seek love from God  by building a relationship with Jesus Christ. Once they learn to love God first, His love will flow through them and help them show love to others. HOW CAN A PHLEGMATIC IN AFFECTION LEARN TO LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY? Look to God first  for love and affection. Understand  that God’s love is the model for us to follow. Move from observer to participant  in deep relationships. Make intentional efforts  to show love and affection. Avoid being overly critical  when others fall short. Recognize their low energy , and find healthy ways to manage it. Avoid using humor  to keep people at a distance. Seek balance , so they meet others’ emotional needs—not just their own. Note to the Counselor: When counseling a Phlegmatic in Affection , consider the influence of: Learned Behavior Birth Order Spiritual Walk These factors will affect how they relate to others emotionally.

As I was pondering this month’s encouragement message, the word “substance” grabbed hold of me and would not let go! So I said out loud, “Okay, Lord, what do I do with that? I heard nothing else. Great! Then, this Scripture popped into my mind. “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” [Hebrews 11:1 KJV] Well, that part was easy. So, hope needs faith (substance) to lock onto the evidence (things) which are not seen. I’m seeing this more clearly as I write. (I’m locking onto the message I hadn’t seen earlier.) So, when we pray (with hope) each day for your many needs, we extend our faith (the substance) according to His Word until the answered prayer (the evidence) is seen!

Therefore, since Christ has suffered in the flesh, arm yourselves also with the same purpose, because he who has suffered in the flesh has ceased from sin, so as to live the rest of the time in the flesh no longer for the lusts of men, but for the will of God. [1Peter 4:1-2 NASB95] For many years now, I have read this Scripture in 1 Peter and come away always wanting more revelation of it. What does it mean, I’ve ceased from sin? So, I would push past it. As I was reading and studying this Scripture this morning, seeking the Holy Spirit for more understanding, He led me to one word in the Amplified Bible’s version of this verse. This one word turned the lights on for me. [Intentional]. Here’s the Scripture in The Amplified Bible: Therefore, since Christ suffered in the flesh [and died for us], arm yourselves [like warriors] with the same purpose [being willing to suffer for doing what is right and pleasing God], because whoever has suffered in the flesh [being like-minded with Christ] is done with [intentional] sin [having stopped pleasing the world], so that he can no longer spend the rest of his natural life living for human appetites and desires, but [lives] for the will and purpose of God. [1Peter 4:1-2 AMP] Let the arming begin! Let us all stop pleasing the world and be willing to suffer for doing what is right and pleasing to God.

“And to the eyes of the sons of Israel the appearance of the glory of the LORD was like a consuming fire on the mountain top.”[Exo 24:17 NASB95] When God burns a message on your heart, what do you do with that? Well, that’s what I’m about to find out right now, because this is the first time I’m actually trying to write it out. So, here it is… I had a vision a while back of Moses climbing up that mountain to meet with the Lord. When he got to the top of the mountain (which was smoking and on fire), he stepped into the Presence of God… for forty days! That is AWESOME!!! So what does this have to do with you and me? The trials and tribulations we go through today may seem different now, but they can be extremely difficult and just as life-changing!  These trials and tribulations can feel like a wall of fire all around us! But here’s what the Lord was trying to show me. He is in the midst of that fire, taking us through it, to the Peace of His Presence. Remember the story of the three Hebrew children. Those three young men who were thrown into the fire by that crazy King reveal this truth. They were His witnesses, as are we. "You said, 'Behold, the LORD our God has shown us His glory and His greatness, and we have heard His voice from the midst of the fire; we have seen today that God speaks with man, yet he lives.”[Deut. 5:24 NASB95]

Click On Book For More Information God's Design For Marriage A Blueprint for Lasting Love in Christ By: Deborah Skomba In a world where trends and values are always changing, the institution of marriage needs to remain a shining example of the power of love and commitment. This book explores the heart of intimacy, uncovering the secrets to lasting love and strengthening your faith in the sacred covenant of marriage. "Can two walk together unless they are agreed?"  Amos 3:3 NKJV

Heart to Heart Ministry and Coaching An NCCA Certified Academic Institution Dr. Deborah Skomba Heart to Heart Ministry and Coaching was born out of my own journey of faith, marriage, and counseling. Having been married to the man of my dreams for over 40 years, I understand the challenges, victories, and seasons of marriage. I also know that with God’s wisdom, grace, and intentional effort, marriages can thrive, not just survive. Through my work as a clinical supervisor for the NCCA, I see firsthand how Christian counseling transforms lives. By integrating APS Temperament Theory with biblical principles, Heart to Heart Ministry and Coaching provides a faith-based, personalized approach to helping clients find healing, strength, and clarity. The Heart Behind the Ministry: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) Spring is a season of renewal, growth, and new beginnings, a perfect reflection of what we experience in our faith, ministry, and personal lives. As the world around us comes to life, so do new opportunities to step into God’s plan for success. One of the greatest joys of my work is helping couples reset and realign their marriages with God’s design. Too often, miscommunication, unmet expectations, and external pressures weaken relationships. That’s why I created "God’s Design for Marriage"—a resource that provides couples with biblical principles and practical tools to build a strong foundation. As a clinical supervisor for the NCCA, I have the privilege of mentoring and equipping new counselors to integrate the APS Temperament Theory into their ministry. This role allows me to help counselors understand themselves and their clients on a deeper level, ensuring they provide effective, Christ-centered guidance. But beyond my role as a supervisor, author, and speaker, I am first and foremost a wife, mother, and grandmother who deeply values the power of strong, Christ-centered relationships. I am married to the man of my dreams, and together, we have built a life filled with faith, love, and purpose. We are blessed with two grown, married children and five precious grandsons - my "grandjoys" - each a reminder of God’s faithfulness and the importance of family. These relationships have shaped my passion for helping couples build marriages that not only survive but thrive according to God’s design. As a speaker at this year’s NCCA Conference, I will be sharing an essential truth: who you surround yourself with directly impacts your success, your faith, and the health of your relationships. By aligning your inner circle with God’s divine design, you create an environment where growth, encouragement, and accountability thrive. Proverbs 13:20 NIV reminds us: "Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." Whether in ministry, marriage, or personal life, the people we allow into our inner circle shape our spiritual growth and emotional well-being. Why does our inner circle matter? If we surround ourselves with wise, faith-filled, and supportive individuals, we are more likely to experience success, peace, and strong relationships. However, if we allow negativity, doubt, or worldly influences to dominate our closest relationships, it can lead to spiritual stagnation, discouragement, and division. At the conference, I will introduce The Five-Fold Formula for Success, a biblical framework inspired by Ephesians 4:11-13. This model applies the principles of the five-fold ministry (Apostle, Prophet, Evangelist, Pastor, Teacher) to help individuals build a strong, balanced support system for ministry, life, and marriage.  I look forward to sharing practical strategies, biblical insights, and real-life applications that will help you: Strengthen your personal and ministry relationships Ensure your inner circle aligns with God’s purpose Reignite relationships with biblical principles Just as spring brings renewal, so does aligning your inner circle with God’s plan. Whether you’re a Christian counselor, ministry leader, or married couple, the key to lasting success and fulfillment is to surround yourself with the right people, biblical wisdom, and God’s truth. This is a season of growth, restoration, and divine alignment. Let’s spring forward together, walking in faith, wisdom, and God’s design for success! I can’t wait to connect with you all at the conference—see you there!

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE By: Dr. Phyllis J. Arno Melancholies in Affection At some point, we’ve all likely been asked the profound question: “What is love?” As Christians, we often respond by affirming that God is  love, and we encourage others to reflect on the words of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV): Love is patient, Love is kind.                        It does not envy,                          It does not boast,                            It is not proud,                                It is not rude,                                 It is not self-seeking,                                    It is not easily angered,                                     It keeps no records of wrong,            Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.            It always protects, always trusts, always perseveres. In response, people might say: “But I can’t be patient. I can’t be kind, etc.” So, what do we say to them? That’s a great question, and the answer lies within each of us. If you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you have God’s unconditional love flowing through you, for God is love  (1 John 4:16). The key, then, is to “tap into His love.” How can we tap into God’s love? By releasing our own conditional love and allowing His unconditional love to flow freely through us. Once we do this, our love transforms. It is no longer a conditional love, but an unconditional love—reflecting God’s very nature. Deuteronomy 6:5-9 speaks to this command: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” You may also share these additional scriptures: Matthew 22:37-39  – "Jesus replied: 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.'” John 3:16  – "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." John 13:34  – "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another." John 14:23-24  – "...If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him." 2 Corinthians 7:1  – "Since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God." Philippians 1:9-10  – "And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ." 2 Timothy 1:7  – "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind." And most poignantly, 1 John 4:7-8  reminds us: "Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love." What Is Unconditional Love? The Bible teaches that God’s love for us is unconditional. But what exactly does this mean? Unconditional love is love without any strings attached. It is love that cannot be earned and is not withdrawn based on behavior. Wikipedia defines it as affection without limitations, a love that doesn’t impose conditions. It is, simply put, love that endures, irrespective of circumstances. Webster’s Dictionary goes further, describing unconditional love as “not subject to limitations or reservations.” However, it’s important to recognize that God’s love, though unconditional, does not equate to approval of sin. Proverbs 6:17-19 enumerates what God despises, including things like pride, lies, and violence—yet His love for us remains steadfast. The Melancholy Temperament in Affection Let’s take a closer look at the tendencies of the Melancholy temperament, particularly in the realm of affection: Tender-hearted, yet vengeful Faithful and loyal, but withdrawn or solitary Emotionally guarded, with a fear of rejection Self-sacrificing, but may not express this sacrifice Perfectionistic and critical, especially of relationships Melancholies in affection can be deeply loving and loyal, yet their perfectionism often causes them to become critical when their relationships don’t meet their high standards. They may be emotionally reserved, fearing rejection, and thus struggle to express their feelings openly. When rejected, they may withdraw or seek affection elsewhere. Moreover, their approach to intimacy can be more task-oriented than romantic. They might not feel comfortable with verbal expressions of affection or physical affection like hugging and kissing, preferring to express love through acts of service instead. How Can a Melancholy Learn to Love Unconditionally? For Melancholies to embrace unconditional love, they need to: Recognize that unconditional love is the example set by God  and strive to model their love after His. Turn to God for love and affection first , seeking His love to fill their hearts. Release their perfectionistic tendencies  and be less critical of others when their expectations aren’t met. Overcome their fear of rejection , particularly in intimate relationships, and avoid seeking affection outside their primary relationship. Learn to express their deep love and affection , even when words feel insufficient. While Melancholies may value tangible acts over verbal expressions, it’s essential to balance both forms of affection. Become aware of their loved ones' needs  and express affection in ways that resonate with them—through touch, words, or quality time. Share their love more openly —consider leaving little love notes or letters, or speaking affirmations to show affection and commitment. A Note to Counselors When counseling a Melancholy, remember to consider their learned behaviors, birth order, and spiritual journey. These factors deeply influence how they express love and navigate relationships. Approach them with understanding and patience, guiding them toward embracing the unconditional love that flows from God.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE By: Dr. Phyllis J. Arno The Nature of Love: An Introduction We've all been asked at some point, “What is love?”As Christians, we often point to the answer found in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 , where the Bible describes love in its truest form: Love is patient, Love is kind.                        It does not envy,                          It does not boast,                            It is not proud,                                It is not rude,                                 It is not self-seeking,                                    It is not easily angered,                                     It keeps no records of wrong,            Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.            It always protects, always trusts, always perseveres. When people read this passage, they might respond, “I can’t always be patient, I can’t always be kind…” The challenge of loving as described in these verses can feel impossible. So, what’s the solution? The answer lies within us. Tapping Into God’s Unconditional Love If you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, you have the source of unconditional love living within you, because   God is love   (1 John 4:16) . You don’t need to rely on your own ability to love perfectly. Instead, you need to tap into God's love . This means releasing your own conditional love and allowing God’s unconditional love to flow through you. When you embrace God’s love, your love will shift from being based on conditions to being unconditional. Scriptures to Guide Us Here are a few key Bible verses that help us understand God’s command to love: Matthew 22:37-39  – “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind... Love your neighbor as yourself.” John 3:16  – "For God so loved the world that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life." John 13:34  – “A new commandment I give to you: Love one another as I have loved you.” John 14:23-24  – "If anyone loves Me, he will keep My word, and My Father will love him, and We will come to him and make Our home with him." 2 Corinthians 7:1  – “Let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.” Philippians 1:9-10  – "And this I pray, that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and judgment, that you may approve the things that are excellent, that you may be sincere and without offense till the day of Christ." 1 Timothy 1:7  – “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” 1 John 4:7-8  – "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love ." 1 John 4:15-16  – “ God is love . Whoever abides in love abides in God, and God in him.” 1 John 4:21  – “And this commandment we have from Him: that he who loves God must love his brother also.” Understanding Unconditional Love Unconditional love, as the Bible teaches, is the love God extends to us, one that’s not based on what we do or don’t do. It is freely given. As Webster's Dictionary  defines it, unconditional love is “love without limitations or reservations.” God’s love is unchanging and everlasting, but it’s important to understand that God's love does not mean He condones sin. In fact, He hates sin, as seen in Proverbs 6:16-19 , which lists things God detests: A proud look A lying tongue Hands that shed innocent blood A heart that devises wicked plans Feet that run to evil A false witness who speaks lies One who sows discord among brothers The Choleric Temperament and Unconditional Love Let’s now focus on how the Choleric  temperament expresses affection. Cholerics are often: Charming Controlling Romantic Task-oriented Critical Cool and aloof Confident Sexually oriented Demanding While these traits are not inherently bad, they can present challenges when it comes to practicing unconditional love. A Choleric may struggle with perfectionism in their relationships, leading to criticism when others don’t meet their high standards. But there’s hope for growth. How Cholerics Can Learn to Love Unconditionally The first step for a Choleric in affection is to focus on their relationship with God. By accepting Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior and cultivating intimacy with Him, they allow God’s love to flow through them. Deuteronomy 6:5-9  reminds us to love God with all our hearts and teach this love to others. For a Choleric, this means recognizing that true love comes from God and that their relationships need to be rooted in this divine love, not their own need for control or perfection. Cholerics may express love through actions, such as doing tasks for others, but it’s important for them to also embrace more expressive forms of love, such as affection and physical touch. Practical Steps for Cholerics to Love Unconditionally Avoid using love to control : Cholerics often try to manipulate situations, but unconditional love isn’t about control; it’s about freedom and respect. Forgive others : Holding grudges only leads to bitterness. Unconditional love requires forgiveness. Develop emotional depth : Love is more than just actions. Cholerics should aim to genuinely feel love for those around them, not just act as though they do. Don’t punish others for failing to meet your expectations : Unconditional love doesn’t demand love on one’s own terms. It’s about accepting people where they are. Don’t become abusive : Physical or emotional abuse has no place in a loving relationship. Unconditional love is always kind and never violent. Recognize the needs of others : True love considers the needs of others, not just our own desires. Replace criticism with mercy : Instead of focusing on perfection, practice mercy and understanding toward others. A Final Thought Unconditional love is the greatest gift we can offer, as it reflects God’s love for us. By embracing God's love, Cholerics—and all of us—can learn to love unconditionally, without manipulation, without control, and without the expectation of perfection. Let us remember that God is love  (1 John 4:8), and He has set the perfect example for us to follow.

Click On Book For More Information Calm Moments for Anxious Days: A 90-Day Devotional Journey By: Max Lucado It's not always easy to release worries into God's hands! Weaving together Scripture promises, enlightening illustrations, and thoughtful practices, Lucado's 90-day devotional will help you exchange anxiety for heavenly peace. Each powerful entry includes a brief meditation, biblical promise, and space for recording prayers and concerns. Whatever the challenge, let these encouragements bring you back to truth and hope! 208 pages, hardcover from Nelson.